So once again we had D for part of the summer. She's been here since June 11th. OMGsh she has been the biggest helper. She quick and willing to damn near breastfeed Kobi.
The problem? I forget about Lael.
I don't mean I forget her but I forget that it was her that watched my tummy grow everyday and all she talked about was being able to help with her brother.
Last night I lay in bed and Lael comes in my room. She starts crying and I had no clue what the problem was.
Apparently I've been overlooking her in the helper area. She told me how I gave her diaper job away to D (one that was hers tje first 3 weeks of his life). She said that I always ask D to help me and never her.
She's right. Just because D is quicker and older doesn't make it right.
D will be going home next week and then it will be Lael and Kobi again. She will be my only helper until Aug.
The challenge: Keeping them both involved without any hurt feelings.
Fun times are ahead.
letting go of perfect
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